Please join us for a self-defense class benefiting Womanspace, on April 6 from 2-3:30 PM at Princeton Academy of Martial Arts. Please see below for more information and to register.
Category: Current Events
The Vagina Monologues
Several local universities will be holding performances of The Vagina Monologues, with proceeds benefiting Womanspace:
Princeton University: Feb. 20, 21 & 22 @ 8PM: Theater Intime
The College of New Jersey: Feb. 21 @ 8PM: Mayo Music Hall
Click here for more information about The Vagina Monologues, Eve Ensler’s award-winning play.
Annual Appeal 2018: “Giving is the greatest act of Grace”
Peace begins at home is the cornerstone on which the mission of Womanspace was created 41 years ago. Inherent in that belief is the absolute necessity of respect and mutual respect. As adults, we lead by example, starting in families where young girls and boys can learn that they have the right to say “no” to unwanted touch. We need to teach our little girls that their voice matters and teach our little boys it is critical that they hear and respect those voices as well as knowing their own voice matters to say “no.” The news today is filled with so many stories about the violation of boundaries and about the voices of victims and survivors speaking out for the first time. It is imperative that we listen to those voices and help our children understand the importance of respecting the experiences of others.
As a parent, it is sometimes difficult to know how to talk about these issues. Children are never too young to learn about boundaries and respect. The root of violence against individuals, domestic and sexual violence starts early; therefore, the conversation needs to start now.
Talk about boundaries and respect. If you are a parent or a significant adult in a child’s life, you can emphasize everyone’s right to say no to an unwanted touch. Ted Bunch, Chief Development Officer of A Call To Men, helps to educate men on healthy, respectful manhood and aims to prevent violence against women. “We have to have conversations much earlier about respectful boundaries,“ Bunch said, “We’re talking about respecting your body and the bodies of others, being able to say no and understanding that someone is not supposed to touch me in certain ways.” A conversation with a child is imperative to tell them “If somebody wants to give you a hug, it’s OK to say, I don’t want a hug.” For older boys, this might mean cultivating a clear conversation about consent. It is important to model behavior at home.
Make it clear that emotions are OK. It is important to teach our boys to have the full range of emotions, let them cry and experience their feelings. Model gender equality at home, things like equal chores for daughters and sons. Most of all, tell your children they can come to you with anything without judgment that no topic is off the table. Raising kind children will ensure the maturing of kind adults.
Womanspace programs and services continue to evolve as needs in the community grow and change. This evolution includes being a daily voice in the community for respect and consent. Since 1977, Womanspace has served over 368,725 individuals effected by interpersonal violence; 71,393 women, 13,717 children and 5,153 men. During fiscal year July 2016 through June 2017, Womanspace served a total of 11,900 adults and children, providing them with critical lifesaving services including:
- Hotlines: Domestic violence and sexual assault crisis hotlines and Statewide Domestic Violence Hotline. Our 24-hour Emergency Services team responded to 6,476 callers.
- Emergency Safe House: 88 women and 75 children found refuge in our 24/7 safe house.
- Domestic Violence Response Team: Helped 102 children, 569 women, and 97 men through their trauma.
- Sexual Assault Response Team: Helped 13 Children, 43 women, and 2 men through their trauma.
- Individual Counseling and Support Services: Counseled 318 adults and children in their path to healing.
- Professional Training and Community Education: Over 5,301 individuals were educated and trained through these outreach presentations.
Please join us in our commitment to end domestic and sexual violence. Choose to give generously this year and know that your contribution will benefit thousands of adults and children who we serve here in the Greater Mercer County area.
“The secret to change is to focus all of your energy not on fighting the old, but on building the new.” – Socrates
Let’s help to make that change!
Peace Begins at Home
Help light up the community with Womanspace for our
17th Annual Communities of Light™ Event
December 3, 2018
Link up – Illuminate- Light
During the winter solstice in December, Communities of Light™ (COL) candles line the streets of central New Jersey – a powerful symbol of hope for men, women and children impacted by domestic violence, sexual assault and human trafficking in our community. Communities of Light raises awareness of the services available to help those victims in Mercer County. The candles come from luminary kits which help spread our important message that Peace Begins at Home.
December 3 Municipal Lighting Information
East Windsor: Lighting will be at 5PM at East Windsor Municipal Building followed by refreshments. 16 Lanning Blvd. East Windsor, NJ, 08520
Ewing Township: Ceremony will be held at 5PM at the Ewing Township Municipal Building. 999 Lower Ferry Road, Ewing, NJ, 08628-1544.
Hamilton: Lighting at Dan Benson’s office 4:15-4:30PM. 3691 Nottingham Way, Trenton, NJ 08690
Hightstown: Proclamation and lighting at 4:30-7:30PM in front of the Hightstown Public Library. 148 N Main St Ste 2, Hightstown, NJ, 08520-3249
Hopewell Township: Municipal Building lighting at 4:30PM. 201 Washington Crossing Pennington Rd, Titusville, NJ 08560
Lawrence Township: Main Street Association: Weeden Park at 4:30PM
Pennington Borough: Lighting at Town Hall. 30 N Main St, Pennington, NJ, 08534-2203
Princeton: 4:30PM-5PM SHARE lighting up Washington & Harrison Streets: Lighting, Post lighting reception: 5:30-6:30PM. Jammin Crepes reception (invite only)
Robbinsville: 4:30-5:50PM at the Municipal Building, light refreshments by Friendly’s.
Trenton: Lighting at 5-6PM Trenton City Hall. 319 East State Street Trenton, NJ 08609.
West Windsor: West Windsor Township: 5PM at the Municipal Building and Police Department. 271 Clarksville Rd, West Windsor, NJ, 08550-0038.
Community Lightings:
Rider University
The Lawrenceville School
Allentown Business Community Association
PASH
Princeton University- SHARE & Eating Clubs
Heavenly Havens Creamery- Allentown
Willamenas- Allentown
Palmer Square
Trenton Social
Click here for information about our Communities of Light Launch Event on October 23!
Filmed and Produced by @sarahcopleymedia
Communities of Light Retail Locations to Purchase Kits
Please note: kits will be available at retail locations by late October/early November. Please contact retailers for kit availability.
Amerikick, 2901 Brunswick Pike, Lawrenceville, NJ 08648
Casa Aziz, 4 Hulfish St., Princeton, NJ 08542
Chance on Main, 34 South Main Street, Pennington, NJ 08534
DiverseStyle Salon, 3371 Brunswick Pike US Hwy 1, Lawrence Township, NJ 08648
Domain Computer Services, Inc., 1 Corporate Drive, Cranbury, NJ 08512
Doctor’s Express Urgent Care, 2222 Route 33, Suite H, Hamilton, NJ 08690
ERA Central Realty Robbinsville, 20 Main St., Robbinsville, NJ 08691
Everson’s Karate and Cardio Kickboxing, 2330 Hwy 33, Suite 102, Robbinsville, NJ 08691
Flip Body Fit, 2103 Whitehorse Mercerville Road, Hamilton, NJ 08619
Greater Eldridge Park Neighborhood Association (GENPA), 78 Meriline Avenue, Lawrence Twp., NJ 08648
Hamilton Horizons Federal Credit Union, 3535 Quakerbridge Road, Ste. 600, Hamilton, NJ 08619
Hamilton Washery, 121 Graffam Ave, Hamilton Township, NJ 08610
Heavenly Havens Creamery, 33 South Main St., Allentown, NJ 08501
Investors Bank, 160 Lawrenceville Pennington Road, Lawrenceville, NJ 08648
Karl Weidel Insurance, 23 South Warren St., Trenton, NJ 08610
Lawrenceville Home Improvement, 2821 Brunswick Pike, Lawrenceville, NJ 08648
McCaffrey’s Food Market- Princeton, 301 N Harrison St, Princeton, NJ 08540
McCaffrey’s Food Market- West Windsor, 335 Princeton Hightstown Rd, West Windsor Township, NJ 08550
Mrs. G TV and Appliance Store, 2720 US-1 BUS, Lawrence Township, NJ 08648
Optique Boutique, 3371 US Hwy 1, Unit 154 Mercer Mall, Lawrence Township, NJ 08648
Pennington Quality Market, 25 Route 31 South Suite X, Pennington, NJ 08534
Princeton Center for Yoga and Health, 88 Orchard Road, Skillman, NJ 08558
Terhune Orchards, 330 Cold Soil Road, Princeton, NJ 08540
Tony’s Farm and Garden Center, 1369 Route 130, Windsor, NJ 08561
Weidel Realtors, 190 Nassau Street, Princeton, NJ 08542
Wilhelmina’s Gift Shop, 6 Church Street, Allentown, NJ 08501
Click here to download a flyer.
Click here to download a Retailer Participation Form.
To read about our Honorary Chair, click here!
Get Involved today by purchasing a sponsorship and/or luminary kits!
Please note, luminary kits can be purchased at retail locations or on our website. If you purchase a kit on our website please visit our office (1530 Brunswick Ave., Lawrenceville NJ). We do not offer shipping.
Communities of Light Launch 2018
Womanspace invites the public to celebrate the launch of the 17th Annual Communities of Light on Tuesday, October 23, from 5:30-7:30 PM at D&R Greenway Land Trust, 1 Preservation Place, Princeton, NJ. The launch will include a free reception and a speech presented by the Communities of Light Honorary Chair. There will also be food and drink donated by D’Angelo Italian Market, Terhune Orchards, Pennington Quality Market, and Terra Momo Restaurant Group, and music by young artists Sahil Navani and Dillon Schindler.
This annual event marks National Domestic Violence Awareness Month (October). The campaign will culminate in the Communities of Light Luminary Lighting Event on December 3, 2018, which includes hundreds of individual participants and community groups throughout the 12 municipalities in Mercer County. To RSVP for the Launch Event please call 609-394-0136 or email eat@womanspace.org.
Annual Meeting
Please join us for our Annual Meeting on Tuesday, October 16 from 12-2 PM at the Muslim Center of Greater Princeton (2030 Old Trenton Road Princeton Junction, NJ 08550). The Annual Meeting is your opportunity to exercise your membership rights. The meeting includes the annual report on the state of the agency, and recognition of Womanspace staff. This year we will also be recognizing Board Members who have served Womanspace for over 20 years. Advance registration is required and the cost is $35 per person. Please call 609-394-0136 to RSVP or register below.
Art Show to Benefit Womanspace
Please join us on October 12 and 13 for an art show benefiting Womanspace. More details below.
Art Exhibit by Agata May’kowska
PROP & r.e.dSTORATION
37 N. Main St
New Hope, PA 18938
Short Artist Bio and Statement
Agata May’kowska was born and raised in Poland. She immigrated to Mercer County, New Jersey in 2005, where she has lived ever since. Agata survived extended periods of sexual and psychological abuse, leading her to become homeless. She has recovered fully from these difficulties and has now spent years volunteering in online support groups and with a local “street church” ministry that helps the homeless in Trenton. She has gone on to create a successful small business and become a very happy single mother to her beautiful teenage daughter. In late 2017 she decided to use her work as a platform to bring awareness to psychological abuse and provide victims with a visual form to express their struggle and the power and beauty of their healing.
Working with acrylics and mixed media such as paper, broken mirrors and fabrics, she has been dedicating her work mainly to inspire others to appreciate the complexity and beauty of emotional healing and to live their lives wholeheartedly.
The artist is donating 10% of sales from her art to support non-profit organizations in preventing abuse, educating people and helping victims recover.